As the outer world takes some twists and turns we do not like, we've been very seriously digging into our interior world.
Not as escapism.
But as creation.
We know – we can't manifest the dream vision we have for the world and for ourselves if our insides aren't a match.
The nervous system is predictive – it expects what's familiar.
Even and sometimes especially when our intention is the opposite.
Obviously we all want peace, connection, and abundance (among other things!), but sometimes our nervous system has an opposing "opinion" about getting them.
Want to play a cool game?
Find out how your nervous system really feels about getting what you want.
Things That Are Received/Asked For
compliments
birthday wishes
gifts
paychecks
eye-contact
event invites
inheritance
rent
payments
raises
refunds
help
due payment
attention
favor
feedback
tips
advice
applause
blessings
special deal
information
seconds
a raise
intimacy
more time
cooperation
advocacy
company
donation
touch
sales of your product
booking of your services
phone calls
food
to be paid your rate
visits from friends or neighbors
special accommodations
to be prayed for
to be listened to
loan
How to play this diagnostic game:
1. Look at the list above.
2. Put each item into the category "Comfortable" or "Uncomfortable". If asking for the item is different for you than receiving it, you can split the two parts into different categories.
3. Do not overthink this. If there is discomfort above, say, a level 3 (out of 10), put that item in the uncomfortable category for now because your nervous system signals a degree of stress or discomfort around that item.
4. Do not gauge "how far you've come". You've come far! You get major high-fives for that. Totally. But to get a clear sense of reactivity right now, we don't want a comparison, we want current data.
What did you find out?
Are there any patterns you're noticing?
Are some things easier to receive than to ask for?
How do you feel about the length of each list you compiled?
Here's a little secret...
We've been using our NeuroMagnetic Besties Retreat curriculum with the data we got from playing this categorizing game.
And the results are...
Astounding.
In 30 days of working the curriculum in a concentrated way, sudden, surprising, unexpected results have come through in various, but very specific forms.
(Want details? Just reply to this email and ask!)
How we subconsciously feel about actually getting what we cognitively want is good information to know, because...
We can't manifest what our nervous system is protecting against!
April 19-25, 2026
Pura Vida Wellness Center
Yelapa, Mexico
We'll use our time together to get our internal landscape in precise alignment with what we most desire.
This manifestational container is exquisite, potent, and comprehensive.
In the weeks leading up, you'll get support through in-person sessions, foundational videos, as well as daily journaling practices that are customized specifically for you and what you're calling in.
While in Mexico, you'll be in deep immersion, practicing how to receive care, abundance, and attention - from juice delivered to your hands while you swish in the oceanwater pool, to spa treatments, to gourmet meals.
During afternoon workshops, we'll leverage our trademark Emotional Sovereignty tools to clear the NeuroMagnetic path to what you desire.
After we return, we'll keep the magic alive with a community session as well as continuing journal practices that help to myelinate the changes to your nervous system.
You will not be the same after this.
Expect huge shifts in your ability to both expand and receive.
This retreat is for duos who are making the big shifts —
Working to manifest what has yet to materialize.
Whatever the two of you are calling in...
More time
More sensuality
More passive income
A new perfect-for-you relationship....
This retreat is your accelerator!
Interested?
(You can start with a deposit and figure out the rest later.)
There are just two weeks left to get in on the early bird bonus 🐦⬛ and get a spa treatment of your choice – on us.
Fancy a massage?
Or Watsu session?
It's yours.
ComplimentaryI
(What a great way to practice receiving!)
You can place your $500 deposit here to save your spot.
A luxury retreat in Mexico with your bestie…
Where you get to fully relax and frolic…
While dissolving the nervous system barriers to your greatest desires?
LITERALLY, WHAT COULD BE BETTER?
This is easily the most potent seven days of our calendar year, and we'd love to share it with you.
Want to check your NeuroMagnetic Alignment?
Let's do it!
We'd love to chat with you about your relationship to "getting what you want" and team up to see what's right for you.