Sometimes things are terrible.

We may have a good run, where it feels like things are "clicking" and we think we've found the right recipe for happiness -- the perfect amounts of money, exercise, and sweet relationships. Other times those very same areas of life feel rocky, out of sorts, or a complete disaster. No matter how many weights we lift, or vitamins we take, our partners don't feel supported and heard, our energy is low, and inspiration is non-existent. 

What makes the difference?

Why don't the good feelings last? Even after a good dose of long-awaited self-care, or a perfect date night, things can turn on a dime, going from fairly blissful to downright ugly.

What flips the switch?

Your brain.

The human brain is a self-reflective biochemical machine. It's designed to react to the environment -- both the external and the internal version. For instance, the brain will switch off the thinking, self-aware, empathetic, creative, and contented ("upper brain") parts anytime there is emotional intensity. It then shifts processing to the social part of the brain (the "mid brain" or "limbic system"), the part designed to elicit connection from others and to process emotion. If/when the outer or inner environs are not soothed through connection and/or emotional processing, then the brain will shift again, further down into the instinctual part (the "lower brain"), the area in charge of our fight, flight, or freeze responses, simply to keep us alive and sane.

Those "bad days" that we all hate? The lower brain runs the show on those days. 

It's a design based on survival. In the face of danger, our brains don't want us analyzing danger, empathizing with an attacker, brainstorming fantastic ideas, or any other "executive function". It wants us to forget everything else and FIGHT! or RUUUUN! And for that we're grateful.
But here's the rub -- our brains don't distinguish between the stress that comes when confronting an angry mama bear in the woods, and the stress that comes when we realize we forgot to pay the phone bill (again). So, many times throughout the day, no matter who we are, our brains take over and send us into a fight, flight, or fright state of mind. 

Bummer.

Ready for the good news? 

Even though our brains feel free to shut down executive function at the drop of a hat, they are also fairly open to bringing executive function back online. It's a matter of sending the right cues when needed, maintaining a sense of where we are emotionally, and then practicing what we've learned so much that the quick shift back to our best selves becomes hard-wired, more our regular state of being than not.

 

See, you've got everything you need to be the biggest, shiniest version of yourself already built into that beautiful brain of yours.
You just need some tools and some support to claim it. 

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Our coaching program is designed to bridge the gap between where you are now, and where you'd like to be. Three tender phone calls per month move your thinking, your perspective, and your actions in the direction of your ideal life. You want a good-feeling family, meaningful connection with loved ones, and emotional stability. We'll get you there.

We believe your goals are realistic. We know they are achievable and it is our greatest joy to celebrate as you reach them.

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  • Yearly weekend retreat - 2 days on location in Santa Cruz, CA

Space is extremely limited for this exclusive group. This sequence combines the very best of what we have to offer. We know with absolute certainty that we can get you where you long to be -- re-connected with your spouse, calm and grounded in your parenting choices, with healthy, happy, successful children, and most importantly, in love with who you have worked so hard to become -- and the Deluxe Relationship Refresh is the answer. In order to secure your space register as soon as possible, because you deserve this royal transformative treatment.

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There are some parenting issues that WE ALL struggle with! Each month we'll pick one of these hot topics and give you everything we've got on it! In these calls you will learn about the underlying neurology present in these situations, real-life examples of what this looks like in the real world, and ready-to-go strategies to change this issue in your life. Need clarification? Just ask! We'll be sure to take questions as we go.

 


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Course topics include:
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This guide is perfect for getting a start on parenting young children or as a complete overhaul if your own current parenting strategies seem to be lacking. The course covers seven weeks with specific topics, challenges, and personal stories and examples.

This course is complimentary with natural parenting, positive parenting, non-violent communication, and the ideas presented by Alfie Kohn and Dr. Laura Markham.


Monthly Support Package

$477/month

(space limited)

Our coaching program is designed to bridge the gap between where you are now, and where you'd like to be. Three tender phone calls per month move your thinking, your perspective, and your actions in the direction of your ideal life. You want a good-feeling family, meaningful connection with loved ones, and emotional stability. We'll get you there.

We believe your goals are realistic. We know they are achievable and it is our greatest joy to celebrate as you reach them.

Have questions? No problem!


DELUXE RELATIONSHIP REFRESH

(exclusive - VERY limited space)

Registration OPEN

Press further, go deeper, make permanent change in your personal and family life. Take all the advantages found in one-one coaching and take it to the next level. This is a year-long comprehensive approach designed to completely and radically shift your personal and family experience for good. Think your situation can't change? Think again.

$8,997 for 12-month membership

Included:

  • Welcome package including: Feeleez Matching Game, Feeleez Poster, Feeleez Curriculum, Feeleez ABCs, charts, and more
  • Workbook
  • Enrollment in all Feeleez workshops, courses, and webinars held throughout the year (spouse included) 
  • Bonus content on pressing key topics (videos, essays, Q/A and more) 
  • Three, one-to-one, coaching calls per month 
  • Yearly weekend retreat - 2 days on location in Santa Cruz, CA

Space is extremely limited for this exclusive group. This sequence combines the very best of what we have to offer. We know with absolute certainty that we can get you where you long to be -- re-connected with your spouse, calm and grounded in your parenting choices, with healthy, happy, successful children, and most importantly, in love with who you have worked so hard to become -- and the Deluxe Relationship Refresh is the answer. In order to secure your space register as soon as possible, because you deserve this royal transformative treatment.

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